Phoebe Gavin

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205 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 15 Jan

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Marketplace All-in-One · Surviving job hunting hell · 15 Jan 2026 podcast

But the more you do it, the more it becomes...

a natural instinct where you don't even have to choose to do it.

That voice shows up and you immediately give that counter narrative.

And then that voice gets softer and softer and softer.

Now, it's still a difficult situation.

And so the voice is still going to come go up.

But we don't want it to be where you are an absolute captive to all of the horrible things that your inner critic is saying to you.

The other thing that helps you get out of that is developing a personality outside of your profession.

If all you do is work, if the only people you spend time with are people that you are coworkers or former coworkers or other people in your industry, then it's going to be very difficult for you to feel like you have value if something's going on with your career.

Now, for a lot of women, the other thing that they go to to find value is some sort of caregiving.

And so if that's you, you still need to develop a personality, get a hobby, don't monetize it, just do something for fun that is just for your own enjoyment.

And that is going to help you see yourself more broadly than just your profession or just your caregiving responsibilities.

It's super important.

And it's important to remember that the only entity that benefits from your entire identity being built around your job or your profession are the companies that profit off of your labor.

No one else benefits from you defining yourself that way.

Whatever is underneath the passion or the mission or the values or the curiosity or the delight that comes from the work that you do, that is the part that is you.

The profession is not you.

The profession is the thing that capitalism asks you to do so that somebody with a lot of money can make more money.

These sorts of questions are actually very difficult emotionally, and I don't want our relationship to suffer because we have difficult conversations.

I have an entire lesson in my course library that is specifically about unhelpful loved ones.

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