Phoebe Gavin

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205 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jan 2026 last heard 15 Jan

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Marketplace All-in-One · Surviving job hunting hell · 15 Jan 2026 podcast

It's like 30 minutes long.

But the shortest version that I can give you is to say, I appreciate your interest and your care about me and wanting to know what's going on with my job hunt.

But these sorts of questions are actually very difficult emotionally.

And I don't want our relationship to suffer because we have difficult conversations.

Would you mind if we don't talk about this anymore at all?

And if we do, just know that I'm going to change the subject.

You made a really good point, though, that sometimes people do want to talk about it.

And it kind of goes back to what we talked about at the top, that there's so much shame around this.

And so if someone in your life, someone that you know and care about, is between opportunities,

You can proactively reach out to them and say, I am available if you want to talk about stuff, if you want to send me a resume or a cover letter.

And that is a very different thing from randomly at brunch.

So how's your job search?

Can you afford this mimosa?

Be the person who reaches out to those folks and just letting them know that you are available so that if that is something that they want, whether it's in the moment or in the future, they know they have your consent to receive that.

Yeah, that's fair.

That's definitely why I asked what kind of friendship are we talking about here?

Because your instincts around that relationship are going to tell you whether that is safe to do or not, because it might not be.

And if it is, then go super hard on it.

Like here's, I had the interview on this day and I talked to this person and these are the things that we talked about.

Like make it to where you are doing everything you can to make sure that one of you get that job.

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