Phoenicia
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32 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
Phoenicia’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Hi.
I'm great. How are you?
This is Phoenicia.
I am in Phoenix, Arizona. Oh. You're not too far away from us.
Yeah, and on the main roads, there's like tractors and stuff. Yeah. Love it.
I'm single, and like most singles, I go on dating apps, and I had a match with this guy. I will say I was so taken back by his good looks that all logic went out the window.
It sure is, especially with the blue eyes. Wow. We matched, we started talking and we quickly moved the conversation to text. And he's like, I'll just call you. And I was like, okay, cool. He calls me, we're on the phone and he's like, hey, how do you pronounce your name? And I said, Phoenicia. And he's like, Phoenicia, Phoenicia. I like how that rolls off my tongue. And I was like, okay.
It kind of came off as a little weird, but I, again, didn't think anything of it. And so we start talking about where we should go out for our first date. And he's like, well- I want to take you bike riding at night near a canal. And I was like, I don't think that's appropriate for a first date. What? Oh, my God.
It's so specific.
Hi, I want to murder you.
So I was like, no, that's not appropriate for a first date. Let's just meet during the day in public. So we agreed to meet for lunch the next day. Lunch goes well. He's super good looking in person too. After the date, he walks me to my car and he's like, I've Had a good time. I want to see you again.
And he kind of has me like up against my car because he walked me to my car and he's leaning forward. He's like, we really need to go on that bike ride. And I was like, I don't want to go. He's like, I think we really should go. I was like, I don't even have a bike. He's like, I have a bike for you. We can go. I know of a great spot. You can see the stars. And I was like, I don't think so.
I don't think I would be here if I ended up on that bike ride. I'm glad you did not do that. So he's like, I'll call you later. I'm like, OK. So I'm driving home and I'm like, oh, crap. I did not ask him the one question I asked guys before I meet them. Have you ever been arrested? And I also looked him up before I go out with them because better safe than sorry.
I was like, have you ever been arrested? He's like, no. I'm like, okay. So later that night he called me and we're just catching up about our day and he brings up the bike ride again.
He's like, you have to go. It's so nice. At this point, I was getting really turned off. Yeah. And just didn't understand why he was being so pushy and not respecting my boundaries. So I was like, we ended the conversation. I got home. I looked him up online. And to my shock, that previous month, he had been arrested for assault and battery crime. kidnapping. Oh, disorderly conduct. Oh, my God.
And I was like, what the hell?
I think people might benefit from knowing how you discovered that you can find out a lot about a person with their phone number, which is kind of the scary part. So I had his phone number. I went on one of the websites, just typed it in. His first name, last name came up.
Yes, that did match. And the age, too. And then you take that information and depending on where you live, for us, it's Maricopa County. So like the Maricopa County Superior Court website, that's where you would go. And then you click on criminal and you would just fill in their name. And if they have anything for criminal or even legal or family, it comes right up.
So I text him, of course, because I'm curious. I want to push the limits a little. And I was like, so one more time, have you ever been arrested? Have you ever been to jail? And he's like, no. And I was like, okay. So I blocked him and I didn't talk to him again.
No, I don't think it would work. I didn't. I didn't want to toy with that and open a whole pot of worms that I probably wasn't equipped to carry. But I was just like, what the hell?
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