Phyllis Fagell

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361 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Oct 2021 last heard Oct 2021

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Full-Tilt Parenting: Strategies, Insights, and Connection for Parents Raising Neurodivergent Children · TPP 267: How to Navigate School This Fall, with Phyllis Fagell · 5 Oct 2021 podcast

I don't really expect anybody to be okay.

And I think if we go in with that attitude...

And that expectation that it's okay to not be okay.

And we meet our kids where they are, wherever that happens to be.

Maybe they never were able to attend class online.

It just didn't work for them.

Maybe they attended sporadically.

Maybe they used to be a wonderful student and everything kind of went to hell during virtual learning or hybrid learning.

Or they took a hit to their academic self-concept because they're used to performing better online.

So I think we're going to have kids who have taken a hit to their confidence, whether it's academic or social or both.

And our job as adults who are helping them reenter is to really be reassuring, to let them know that they're not behind, that they're not lacking in any way.

I don't know anyone who does better because someone tells them the stakes are high or that

there is something wrong with them or something missing and focusing on their strengths and being really vulnerable ourselves talking about our feelings helping them label theirs and getting them to a place where they can really breathe and say you know what maybe I'm not okay but I'm going to be okay I'm just not okay right now but I have a lot of support and I have a lot of people who love me and want to nurture me and want to help me get back in the groove

Yes, exactly.

So if you're noticing that you're out of sorts, I think it's great if a parent can say to their child, you know, I can tell I'm in a really bad mood right now.

I'm not exactly sure what's bothering me, but I think I'm a little frustrated that my boss was angry.

upset with me for not handing in something on time.

And honestly, I completely forgot to do it.

My brain is just all over the place.

So here's what I'm going to do.

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