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Queen Naija

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660 total appearances

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Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Guess what, though? I'm doing it backwards because I started young having kids and now I literally have to go back to finding myself while still trying to navigate being the best mom I could be and maybe becoming a wife someday. You know what I'm saying? So still trying to really find myself and grow and see what I like. I'm doing everything backwards. So now I'm like, man, do I want more kids?

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, you know, I'm being questioned myself. I've always said, like, I really, really want a girl. But honestly, like, I came to terms that, like, thank you. I came to terms that, like, I think I would be okay if I didn't have any more kids. If my husband ever was like, you know, I want another child, then okay. But I want that to be, like, in my mid-30s. Okay, that's fair.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, you know, I'm being questioned myself. I've always said, like, I really, really want a girl. But honestly, like, I came to terms that, like, thank you. I came to terms that, like, I think I would be okay if I didn't have any more kids. If my husband ever was like, you know, I want another child, then okay. But I want that to be, like, in my mid-30s. Okay, that's fair.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, you know, I'm being questioned myself. I've always said, like, I really, really want a girl. But honestly, like, I came to terms that, like, thank you. I came to terms that, like, I think I would be okay if I didn't have any more kids. If my husband ever was like, you know, I want another child, then okay. But I want that to be, like, in my mid-30s. Okay, that's fair.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Yeah, I need a little bit of time to myself. I gotta, yeah, I gotta establish myself more. I gotta put this album out. I gotta do some acting. I gotta, I got plans.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Yeah, I need a little bit of time to myself. I gotta, yeah, I gotta establish myself more. I gotta put this album out. I gotta do some acting. I gotta, I got plans.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Yeah, I need a little bit of time to myself. I gotta, yeah, I gotta establish myself more. I gotta put this album out. I gotta do some acting. I gotta, I got plans.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

No, not anymore. So I will take accountability and say the reason why they even say that is because of me. In the past when I was so like, and not to say I'm not in love now, but when you're first in that relationship, you're so head over heels in the first like few years. It's like, I don't know. Like I put a lot of things about marriage in my songs. I talked a lot about marriage in interviews.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

No, not anymore. So I will take accountability and say the reason why they even say that is because of me. In the past when I was so like, and not to say I'm not in love now, but when you're first in that relationship, you're so head over heels in the first like few years. It's like, I don't know. Like I put a lot of things about marriage in my songs. I talked a lot about marriage in interviews.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

No, not anymore. So I will take accountability and say the reason why they even say that is because of me. In the past when I was so like, and not to say I'm not in love now, but when you're first in that relationship, you're so head over heels in the first like few years. It's like, I don't know. Like I put a lot of things about marriage in my songs. I talked a lot about marriage in interviews.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

So people's just like, she wants marriage. Give it to her. But I had to sit back and think like, hold on, wait a minute. Yeah. I still need some time for myself because once you become a wife, that's a whole nother... That's a duty. Like, just like as a mom, that's a duty. I had to step back and I just realized this maybe a couple years ago, like... I can wait. I actually can wait, actually.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

So people's just like, she wants marriage. Give it to her. But I had to sit back and think like, hold on, wait a minute. Yeah. I still need some time for myself because once you become a wife, that's a whole nother... That's a duty. Like, just like as a mom, that's a duty. I had to step back and I just realized this maybe a couple years ago, like... I can wait. I actually can wait, actually.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

So people's just like, she wants marriage. Give it to her. But I had to sit back and think like, hold on, wait a minute. Yeah. I still need some time for myself because once you become a wife, that's a whole nother... That's a duty. Like, just like as a mom, that's a duty. I had to step back and I just realized this maybe a couple years ago, like... I can wait. I actually can wait, actually.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, no, seriously, because it's not like a rush thing. So I think people are taking a lot of old clips and things that I've said. I put my own foot in my mouth. I'm the reason why they do that. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. But they don't know, like I said, the growth that has happened, like, in my mind. And, like, you know, just really doing therapy and, like, being asked those questions.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, no, seriously, because it's not like a rush thing. So I think people are taking a lot of old clips and things that I've said. I put my own foot in my mouth. I'm the reason why they do that. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. But they don't know, like I said, the growth that has happened, like, in my mind. And, like, you know, just really doing therapy and, like, being asked those questions.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, no, seriously, because it's not like a rush thing. So I think people are taking a lot of old clips and things that I've said. I put my own foot in my mouth. I'm the reason why they do that. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. But they don't know, like I said, the growth that has happened, like, in my mind. And, like, you know, just really doing therapy and, like, being asked those questions.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, well, are you ready to be a wife? Is he ready to be a husband? That's the big one. Yeah. Is he ready to be a... Like, do I want to get married to somebody right now who's not ready to be a husband? And I'm not saying he's not, but we are honestly still working on ourselves.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, well, are you ready to be a wife? Is he ready to be a husband? That's the big one. Yeah. Is he ready to be a... Like, do I want to get married to somebody right now who's not ready to be a husband? And I'm not saying he's not, but we are honestly still working on ourselves.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

Like, well, are you ready to be a wife? Is he ready to be a husband? That's the big one. Yeah. Is he ready to be a... Like, do I want to get married to somebody right now who's not ready to be a husband? And I'm not saying he's not, but we are honestly still working on ourselves.

Pour Minds Podcast
Blame It On Brenda FT. Queen Naija

The best version, yes. And like, who wants to get married? And then it's just like, dang.