Queen Naija
speaker
220 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2025
last heard May 2025
Queen Naija’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yeah, up my sleeve. I'm not going to lie. We're going to pull out that truth card.
And that's another thing, too. I was going to say, because the question was, what, do you heal privately or publicly? I have an outlet, and that's my music. So you're going to hear it in my music. Yeah. But sometimes you won't, because, like, I'll just be writing relatable stuff. But, like...
The music for me, being able to make it into something so beautiful and then I can watch people also like heal too while they're going through their stuff. It's like, it's so beautiful. Yeah. Sometimes, I'm sorry, this peach ring is just... Girl, that's what I said. She was over there talking about my mom, and I'm like, ooh.
I've had people... And this is so crazy. Like, I can't believe it sometimes. People will literally write me and be like, Queen, you literally... Your music stopped me from committing suicide. Or your music really got me through so many hard things like this breakup. And I was just... I'm like, how did my music... How did my story get you through that?
And that's why I also like... I'm going to take to God. God be putting us through things some... Well...
Yeah, to be a vessel. Our struggle is not always just for us. It's for other people to see that you can get through it too. For sure. So yeah, that just makes me ultimately happy. I don't regret anything. I have no regrets about nothing.
Guess what, though? I'm doing it backwards because I started young having kids and now I literally have to go back to finding myself while still trying to navigate being the best mom I could be and maybe becoming a wife someday. You know what I'm saying? So still trying to really find myself and grow and see what I like. I'm doing everything backwards. So now I'm like, man, do I want more kids?
Like, you know, I'm being questioned myself. I've always said, like, I really, really want a girl. But honestly, like, I came to terms that, like, thank you. I came to terms that, like, I think I would be okay if I didn't have any more kids. If my husband ever was like, you know, I want another child, then okay. But I want that to be, like, in my mid-30s. Okay, that's fair.
Yeah, I need a little bit of time to myself. I gotta, yeah, I gotta establish myself more. I gotta put this album out. I gotta do some acting. I gotta, I got plans.
No, not anymore. So I will take accountability and say the reason why they even say that is because of me. In the past when I was so like, and not to say I'm not in love now, but when you're first in that relationship, you're so head over heels in the first like few years. It's like, I don't know. Like I put a lot of things about marriage in my songs. I talked a lot about marriage in interviews.
So people's just like, she wants marriage. Give it to her. But I had to sit back and think like, hold on, wait a minute. Yeah. I still need some time for myself because once you become a wife, that's a whole nother... That's a duty. Like, just like as a mom, that's a duty. I had to step back and I just realized this maybe a couple years ago, like... I can wait. I actually can wait, actually.
Like, no, seriously, because it's not like a rush thing. So I think people are taking a lot of old clips and things that I've said. I put my own foot in my mouth. I'm the reason why they do that. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. But they don't know, like I said, the growth that has happened, like, in my mind. And, like, you know, just really doing therapy and, like, being asked those questions.
Like, well, are you ready to be a wife? Is he ready to be a husband? That's the big one. Yeah. Is he ready to be a... Like, do I want to get married to somebody right now who's not ready to be a husband? And I'm not saying he's not, but we are honestly still working on ourselves.
The best version, yes. And like, who wants to get married? And then it's just like, dang.
I got the ring, but now it's like, no, no. I'd rather, I think... Yeah, I think I'm okay. Yeah. Like, honestly. When the time is right.
You can't. That's another thing. Like, a lot of people be like, you know, well, submit and things like that. The leader of the house is supposed to be led by God. That's how it's God, the husband, the wife, and the kid. Yeah. That's the proper. So if, you know, and I'm on my journey, too. I'm on my path with God, too, just trying to really get close, trying to unlearn a lot of religiosity.
I grew up very religious. Okay. And now with me, it's more so about the relationship with God. And I'm not saying like, oh, yeah, well, I could just do whatever and still. No, but it's like, I have to like really be cultivated and everything like with God and figure out what he wants from me. Does he even want me to be married right now?
The stuff that they be pointing people out, they go through it, like you said, behind closed doors.
They be taking their men back and everything for doing a bunch of stuff, and then you'll be called dumb for doing it. Okay. In public. But, like, come on, man.
I got to prepare myself to go off on you. I just seen your last one with Julian. You're like, y'all are beautiful. Y'all are, y'all are. Yeah. Thank you.
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