Rachel Cruze

Miriam is in Green Bay.

Hey, Miriam, welcome to The Ramsey Show.

Yes.

How can we help?

So you want to get a job and do something with that money that's not part of what the family wants to do?

And what would you make at this job we're talking about?

Could you all have children?

Okay.

So, no, I would not do your plan.

to answer your question, because it's not good for your marriage, it's not good for you.

Instead, I would still accomplish exactly the same goals and do exactly the same thing, but do them in a different way.

Okay, so yes, I'd go get a job, and yes, I'm gonna add that income to the pool, and yes, I am one of two votes on this budget,

And my vote is that some of our money that we make and put in a pool is going to pay for my counseling.

And yes, some of our money is going to go for this.

And no, you're not going to blow money over here while I'm not being cared for with the counseling that I need.

You're not going to blow money over here while these health concerns have not been addressed.

And no.

And so we're both going to talk about this.

And your vote doesn't count more than mine.

They count the same.