Rachel Feintzeig
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1,709 appearances
29 recordings
1 series
first heard Aug 2019
last heard Nov 2024
Rachel Feintzeig’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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And just the sense of, what am I going to do now?
And not knowing how to move forward.
I think that's really hard for people.
People often find a lot of blessings in taking a new path that maybe they didn't expect or
Looking back, there's also some sense of like, did hewing so closely to this exact path that someone else set out for me, even if it was a parent's expectations?
Was that hurtful to me in any way?
Was I not as creative or open-minded as I could have been?
Did I miss out on stuff?
And so I think there's a lot of learnings here, many of which are positive after you get through the initial kind of agita.
If you're doing things like speaking in a way that it sounds like everything is a question, like you're almost questioning yourself, people can really wonder what you mean.
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And they can also question whether or not your leadership material ought to make sense to promote you.
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It's true.
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It's this very fine line to walk.
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The problem with being too nice is that it can devolve into people pleasing.
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And while it might make some people feel good in the office, it's going to make others feel bad.
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There are moments where you have to kind of rally your team, where you have to defend them to another department, where you have to pass feedback upwards in the organization, where people ask you for honest feedback and they want your honest opinion.
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And sometimes when we're too nice, we can sugarcoat things to an extent that they backfire on us.
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It's this sense of just being so soft that people don't even know where you stand.
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That's actually confusing to people.
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So if you're doing things like speaking in a way that it sounds like everything is a question, like you're almost questioning yourself, people can really wonder what you mean.
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