René Dailey

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226 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 28 Feb

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It's something that feels more fun rather than heavy.
So this seems to be something that kind of buffers the lower relationship satisfaction that's more typical for people who are avoidantly attached.
Yeah, it's actually the opposite pattern.
So it was more of these familiar and comfortable experiences that were particularly beneficial for relationship satisfaction.
And so this could be, you know, because anxious folks tend to fear that their partner won't be there for them, it's possible that these familiar, calming, routine experiences actually help to kind of quell some of those concerns.
So yeah, it is those like watching your favorite TV show, maybe cooking like your favorite food
meal together, spending those like a comfortable night in, that tended to be particularly beneficial for those who were more anxiously attached.
It seems to be good overall for everybody.
It's just that what we found is that these activities are particularly beneficial depending on the attachment style.
So that's an important point.
Yeah, I think some of the things that I'm describing here, just like what you're doing, if it sort of sounds like you or thinking about in that moment what your emotional needs might be, you could try to tailor your activities and the activities with your partner to those kinds of experiences.
So importantly, we had both partners.
We did a study.
There's about 390 couples across these three studies that we ran, and we had both partners.
So we could also see what it was like.
So when you're doing something that meets your avoidant attachment style, what's it like for your partner?
Well, the good news is that they also felt more satisfied.
And same with the reverse, right?
So even though it's not necessarily matching your attachment style, when you're doing an activity that matches your partner's, there's still benefits for both people.
So it seems like there's benefits for the couple as a whole.
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