Richard Hogan
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565 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 22 Aug
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It's an important one.
So describe to me what somebody with good boundaries looks like.
You're not a super empath who's taking on everyone else's voice.
It's having a sense of yourself.
Yeah, that's interesting you say about the best boundaries are settled.
So you're not having to go around all the time like, you know, these are my boundaries.
Yeah, yeah, because this is the thing.
You could say, all right, our boundaries should be subtle and we shouldn't have to express them.
But if someone is ignoring boundaries that you are kind of clearly indicating,
It can be hard to manage that without seeming like the difficult person then.
Do you have to sometimes explicitly communicate?
Yeah.
Okay.
And that's actually a boundary in itself.
It's not to be in the other people's heads wondering what they're thinking about us.
And if you go down to the pub... You can't control what everyone else is thinking about you.
Yeah, people are very, very... Terrified of conflict.
...obsessed with what other people think of them.
What would people think?
Yeah, you see, that's the other thing, like even take it lower than a conflict, even like a slight confrontation where you actually have to like stand your ground.
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