Richard Hogan

If there's boundary issues, like people tend to kind of communicate or work it out somewhere.

Then there's that next level of people that you don't know as well, right?

And we all talk about the person who doesn't have boundaries, or that person who trauma dumps or they're oversharing.

There's a person here, and from the other point of view, could Richard shed light on why I might have overshared personal stuff with new friends when I was young?

My sister raised it with me.

And when I look back, I cringe about how I might have made the other person feel.

I had no idea at the time and still no explanation.

Okay, so awareness obviously is the first step.

Yeah, at a kind of an appropriate tempo and speed and arc and everything.

Exactly.

And what about dealing with the people who do that then?

Who are doing it to you?

The people who dump?

Yeah, also, if it's a person you think, we're not that close, why are you dumping this on me?

Yeah, exactly.

But you do have to be a bit ruthless there, do you?

I like it, best of luck with that.

Two great phrases today.

That's just for me.

That's just for me.