Rima Grace

Yeah, they know what skibbity whatever is.

But also, you know, I think...

If you feel excluded also, it's for so many reasons or you feel like you're different from whatever your coworkers.

It's so easy to internalize it and think like this isn't clicking because they hate me and they think there's something wrong with me.

And then you're kind of.

behaving in that manner towards them, right?

Yeah.

Yes, I fully agree.

I remember getting my first like real job with like people I thought were so cool and everything.

And I was like, oh, my God, I'm never going to break through.

And it did take that bridge person, it really did, where I'm like, oh, there's one person I kind of connect with, and it just kind of organically happened, but it took a while.

Sore thumb, it really sounds like you're going through it.

Seek out a bridge person, someone you can see yourself connecting with, and maybe make the first move by asking them some work questions or see if they want to grab some lunch.

And if that doesn't work, just remember that you don't have to prove that you're worth being friends with.

Oh, wow.

What's your first thought?

My first thought is you have to be firm in this.

Like there's no way to sugarcoat it.

Also, this is confusing.

What do you mean?