Rima Grace

And I just want to get a sense of like where you're at.

Yeah, it's reached a boiling point, yeah.

And what it signals about the relationship.

I know, right?

So secondary partner, no matter your relationship structure, you should be able to have candid conversations about money.

Start from a nonjudgmental place and see how your partner responds.

It could be that the conversation becomes less about money and more about how they do or don't make you feel valued.

More of your questions on money and dating.

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This is a classic conundrum, where to live.

What are you thinking, Sam?

Right, right.

This is tough.

I personally know people who've been in this situation.

I'm thinking of one couple and it did lead to resentment because I think part of it, though, was they just didn't have an open conversation about it.

It was just kind of assumed that that's what they were going to do.