Rob Dial

Talk like them.

Make decisions like them.

Think about them when you're in the shower, when you're driving your car.

Ask yourself what they would do in this moment.

Ask yourself better questions like, what would the obsessed version of me do today?

What would the version of me in the future that I'm building myself into refuse to negotiate on in this circumstance?

What belief would I have to stop believing to become this person?

What am I currently getting from staying the same?

Like, oof, that's a spicy one, right?

What am I currently getting from staying the same?

Because staying the same does give you something.

It gives you familiarity.

It gives you sympathy.

It makes your life predictable.

It gives you a reason not to risk failure.

It gives you protection from judgment and from being seen.

It lets you keep the dream perfect in your imagination instead of getting messy in real life.

but you will never be a graceful master if you don't allow yourself to be a foolish beginner.

So become obsessed.

I don't mean frantic.