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Rob Dial

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
6048 total appearances

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The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Can you think about it? What was it that they did? What was it? Okay. Now, was it what they did that pissed you off? Or was it your reaction to it that pissed you off? It's never the actual thing that was done. It's our reaction to the thing that was done. What if I told you that what they did did not trigger you? You might be like, no, no, no, but my mom said this and she triggered me.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Can you think about it? What was it that they did? What was it? Okay. Now, was it what they did that pissed you off? Or was it your reaction to it that pissed you off? It's never the actual thing that was done. It's our reaction to the thing that was done. What if I told you that what they did did not trigger you? You might be like, no, no, no, but my mom said this and she triggered me.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

No, no, no, no, no. She didn't trigger you. It was what you were thinking about what she did that triggered you. It's the internal conversation that you are having with yourself about what they did. Do you get that? Like, do you really, really get it? It's never what somebody else did to you that triggers you. It's what you are thinking about what they did that triggers you.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

No, no, no, no, no. She didn't trigger you. It was what you were thinking about what she did that triggered you. It's the internal conversation that you are having with yourself about what they did. Do you get that? Like, do you really, really get it? It's never what somebody else did to you that triggers you. It's what you are thinking about what they did that triggers you.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

No, no, no, no, no. She didn't trigger you. It was what you were thinking about what she did that triggered you. It's the internal conversation that you are having with yourself about what they did. Do you get that? Like, do you really, really get it? It's never what somebody else did to you that triggers you. It's what you are thinking about what they did that triggers you.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

I care less about what you do in this world. And I care more about the conversation that's happening inside of your mind. Because it's like, oh, well, your mom called you up and she said this. Well, that's what happened in reality. But what happened in your brain? What meaning did you give what she said? Oh my gosh, I can't believe she's doing this again. Why is she always doing this to me?

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

I care less about what you do in this world. And I care more about the conversation that's happening inside of your mind. Because it's like, oh, well, your mom called you up and she said this. Well, that's what happened in reality. But what happened in your brain? What meaning did you give what she said? Oh my gosh, I can't believe she's doing this again. Why is she always doing this to me?

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

I care less about what you do in this world. And I care more about the conversation that's happening inside of your mind. Because it's like, oh, well, your mom called you up and she said this. Well, that's what happened in reality. But what happened in your brain? What meaning did you give what she said? Oh my gosh, I can't believe she's doing this again. Why is she always doing this to me?

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

She's always trying to make me scared of what's happening in the world. She's so based in fear and I'm just so tired of it. Well, that's the conversation happening in your head. That's the thing that's making you triggered. You know, one of my favorite quotes, and I've shared this hundreds of times in this podcast, is Eleanor Roosevelt.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

She's always trying to make me scared of what's happening in the world. She's so based in fear and I'm just so tired of it. Well, that's the conversation happening in your head. That's the thing that's making you triggered. You know, one of my favorite quotes, and I've shared this hundreds of times in this podcast, is Eleanor Roosevelt.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

She's always trying to make me scared of what's happening in the world. She's so based in fear and I'm just so tired of it. Well, that's the conversation happening in your head. That's the thing that's making you triggered. You know, one of my favorite quotes, and I've shared this hundreds of times in this podcast, is Eleanor Roosevelt.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And it's the quote, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Nobody, which means you might say, oh, well, they said this to me and they made me feel bad. No, no, no, that's not what made you feel bad. It was they said something to you and then there was an internal conversation that happened in your head and that's what made you feel bad. And to be triggered is really important.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And it's the quote, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Nobody, which means you might say, oh, well, they said this to me and they made me feel bad. No, no, no, that's not what made you feel bad. It was they said something to you and then there was an internal conversation that happened in your head and that's what made you feel bad. And to be triggered is really important.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And it's the quote, no one can make you feel inferior without your consent. Nobody, which means you might say, oh, well, they said this to me and they made me feel bad. No, no, no, that's not what made you feel bad. It was they said something to you and then there was an internal conversation that happened in your head and that's what made you feel bad. And to be triggered is really important.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Like I always say, being triggered is a gift. The gift is that this person is showing you where you're not free, where you are hung up in some sort of way in your own head. Because it's not about what someone does to you, it's about how you react to that thing. And it's like, one of my other favorite quotes that has to do with this is Viktor Frankl.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Like I always say, being triggered is a gift. The gift is that this person is showing you where you're not free, where you are hung up in some sort of way in your own head. Because it's not about what someone does to you, it's about how you react to that thing. And it's like, one of my other favorite quotes that has to do with this is Viktor Frankl.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

Like I always say, being triggered is a gift. The gift is that this person is showing you where you're not free, where you are hung up in some sort of way in your own head. Because it's not about what someone does to you, it's about how you react to that thing. And it's like, one of my other favorite quotes that has to do with this is Viktor Frankl.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And Viktor Frankl was a psychologist who lived in Auschwitz and other Nazi prison camps. And he says, it's a rough quote, so I'm not going to say it perfectly, but it's something like, between stimulus and response, there is a space. And if you can master that space, you can master your life.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And Viktor Frankl was a psychologist who lived in Auschwitz and other Nazi prison camps. And he says, it's a rough quote, so I'm not going to say it perfectly, but it's something like, between stimulus and response, there is a space. And if you can master that space, you can master your life.

The Mindset Mentor
2 Skills for Healthy Relationships

And Viktor Frankl was a psychologist who lived in Auschwitz and other Nazi prison camps. And he says, it's a rough quote, so I'm not going to say it perfectly, but it's something like, between stimulus and response, there is a space. And if you can master that space, you can master your life.