Rob Henderson

But one was this feeling of retaliation that if their male partner does something that they don't like that.

women will often step out of the relationship to get revenge.

Men don't really think that way.

Men just want sex for its own sake, not necessarily for vengeance.

And so when you read the stories, anyway, of a lot of these women who are into polyamory and you dig into their history, you'll find that often it was their husband who cheated on them or the husband stepped out or the husband did something they didn't like.

And then they will decide to be interested in polyamory, I think, as a way to sort of even the ledger.

Yeah.

Well, just because there's been a historical power imbalance where maybe one, you know, a member of one group has historically held more power than a member of another group.

People then seem to extrapolate that the person who has power is always in the wrong and the person without power is always in the right.

Like they've distorted this idea that the person forever, right?

Right.

Well, the person with less power should be protected and should be heard and so on.

And that's all good, but that doesn't mean they're always correct or their account of events is always accurate relative to the person with more power.

Like truth still exists regardless of who says it, but people are inclined to say, you know, like with the me too thing with believe all women, you know, except in some cases, even, even, even that is thrown out when it's convenient, you know, depending on who the woman is and what her political group might be.

Then suddenly you don't,

Well, some of the things you guys have been talking about reminds me of this discussion I had with an editor at a magazine.

And he told me that the magazine had just run this article about a woman who left her husband to start an OnlyFans and how she was happy with her decision.

to end her marriage and start an OnlyFans.

And I asked this magazine editor, would you run the reverse story of a woman who had an OnlyFans and then abandoned that, got married and was happy with her decision?

And he said, we would never run that story.