Rox
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
The fact that I'm going to lose 20 pounds in four weeks and go to hot yoga five times a week.
Or run a marathon or swim the channel.
It is like fantasizing.
Is it like a fantasy version of you, like this perfect version of you that's like doing all this stuff and is organized and finally gets clean and.
Yeah, I think now I know.
I'm going to fantasize a level of success and perfection that I will never reach.
It will feel good in the moment.
I know I'm never going to do it.
When I was younger, I used to make all these commitments and then fail.
And that led to that shame spiral.
But now I'm just like, yeah, it's not going to happen, but it's nice to think about.
So yeah, big yes.
Go to HomeSense and buy things for the house that we don't need.
I love redecorating, buying art, new cushions.
Don't even get me started.
New cushions, candles everywhere.
It could be as simple as that.
A candle all the way up to repainting a room.