Ryan (Chumba Casino Narrator)

So whenever I'm making a request, sometimes I'll do like a really quick prompt. But it said, hey, you're not going that deep, which a lot of people would tell me. So they said, hey, when you give me a request, ChatGPT is saying this, tell me the tone that you're looking for. Is it funny, casual, professional, or clean? and utilize me to be able to help you brainstorm things.

So whenever I'm making a request, sometimes I'll do like a really quick prompt. But it said, hey, you're not going that deep, which a lot of people would tell me. So they said, hey, when you give me a request, ChatGPT is saying this, tell me the tone that you're looking for. Is it funny, casual, professional, or clean? and utilize me to be able to help you brainstorm things.

A lot of times I come to ChatGPT with my ideas already cooked and saying, hey, can you refine this? But this is saying, no, like, let me actually help you. And when you're actually clear and give a little bit more depth about what you want, the more depth and clarity I can give you.

A lot of times I come to ChatGPT with my ideas already cooked and saying, hey, can you refine this? But this is saying, no, like, let me actually help you. And when you're actually clear and give a little bit more depth about what you want, the more depth and clarity I can give you.

And I just thought in that moment, man, that's a lesson for leadership, parenting, marriage, perhaps for every area of our life. People can't win with us if we don't often show them how. The third prompt that I put in was that exact question.

And I just thought in that moment, man, that's a lesson for leadership, parenting, marriage, perhaps for every area of our life. People can't win with us if we don't often show them how. The third prompt that I put in was that exact question.

That is kind of the whole point of this exercise, which I just asked the question, hey, will you just tell me, ChatGPT, what is it like to be on the other side of me? And let me just tell you what GPT did not hesitate to say. You guessed it. I'll give you one guess what ChatGPT said it was like on the other side of me. I'll wait. I'll wait. Just take a guess.

That is kind of the whole point of this exercise, which I just asked the question, hey, will you just tell me, ChatGPT, what is it like to be on the other side of me? And let me just tell you what GPT did not hesitate to say. You guessed it. I'll give you one guess what ChatGPT said it was like on the other side of me. I'll wait. I'll wait. Just take a guess.

It said, ding, ding, ding, it's complicated. It said people around me probably feel challenged, inspired, stretched, and motivated, that I can bring some clarity and I can also bring some momentum, that I make people better by sometimes simply being in the room. But it also said that it can feel like a whirlwind. That my pace, my expectations, and my directness can feel like a lot.

It said, ding, ding, ding, it's complicated. It said people around me probably feel challenged, inspired, stretched, and motivated, that I can bring some clarity and I can also bring some momentum, that I make people better by sometimes simply being in the room. But it also said that it can feel like a whirlwind. That my pace, my expectations, and my directness can feel like a lot.

That not everyone can thrive under the pressure, especially if they don't feel seen or supported. And I think that's the tension for a lot of us. We want to lead well. We want to help others grow. But we have to remember that. that growth is hard and leadership isn't always easy to receive, even when it's well-intentioned. Then I asked ChatGPT a very, very important fourth prompt.

That not everyone can thrive under the pressure, especially if they don't feel seen or supported. And I think that's the tension for a lot of us. We want to lead well. We want to help others grow. But we have to remember that. that growth is hard and leadership isn't always easy to receive, even when it's well-intentioned. Then I asked ChatGPT a very, very important fourth prompt.

And again, I'll put all of these in the show notes so that you can go through a similar exercise if you leverage ChatGPT as well. Here was a fourth prompt. I said, hey, ChatGPT, what's the thing I need to hear that I may not want? What's the thing that I need to hear? that I may not want to hear. Here's what it told me. It says you may need to slow down for others to catch up.

And again, I'll put all of these in the show notes so that you can go through a similar exercise if you leverage ChatGPT as well. Here was a fourth prompt. I said, hey, ChatGPT, what's the thing I need to hear that I may not want? What's the thing that I need to hear? that I may not want to hear. Here's what it told me. It says you may need to slow down for others to catch up.

Not because they're incapable, but because greatness doesn't always move at the speed of your ideas. You might think speed is a gift, and it is. But patience? Patience might be the gift that makes your speed sustainable for others. Not everyone needs you to be faster. They need you to be present. What? That one got me because it's true.

Not because they're incapable, but because greatness doesn't always move at the speed of your ideas. You might think speed is a gift, and it is. But patience? Patience might be the gift that makes your speed sustainable for others. Not everyone needs you to be faster. They need you to be present. What? That one got me because it's true.

Speed has always been my superpower, but if I'm not careful, it can also become my kryptonite. What good is a vision if no one can keep up with it? What good is momentum if no one has time to process it? So here's the truth. You don't have to be a CEO to ask this question. You don't have to be in leadership.

Speed has always been my superpower, but if I'm not careful, it can also become my kryptonite. What good is a vision if no one can keep up with it? What good is momentum if no one has time to process it? So here's the truth. You don't have to be a CEO to ask this question. You don't have to be in leadership.

You can be a parent, a spouse, a friend, a coworker, a student, and you can still go decades, decades without ever considering what it's like to be on the other side of you. And here's the deal. I love asking people how work is going or how marriage is going. And you know what most people say? It's good. Yeah, it's good.

You can be a parent, a spouse, a friend, a coworker, a student, and you can still go decades, decades without ever considering what it's like to be on the other side of you. And here's the deal. I love asking people how work is going or how marriage is going. And you know what most people say? It's good. Yeah, it's good.