Ryan Soave

And to be able to – a lot of people, even the first time they'll do it – and it's not always like that for everybody, right? Some people just are using it socially and then later on when there are stressors, realize that I can use this to medicate as well. But the ones that are having the relationship that you just described is – They didn't even know.

And to be able to – a lot of people, even the first time they'll do it – and it's not always like that for everybody, right? Some people just are using it socially and then later on when there are stressors, realize that I can use this to medicate as well. But the ones that are having the relationship that you just described is – They didn't even know.

And to be able to – a lot of people, even the first time they'll do it – and it's not always like that for everybody, right? Some people just are using it socially and then later on when there are stressors, realize that I can use this to medicate as well. But the ones that are having the relationship that you just described is – They didn't even know.

They had no idea that life or their emotional state or their physiological state could be different than it was.

They had no idea that life or their emotional state or their physiological state could be different than it was.

They had no idea that life or their emotional state or their physiological state could be different than it was.

You know, St. Augustine said, and I'm not going to get it exactly right, but he said something like, you know, well living depends on reordering your loves. And he was talking about people living with a disordered life. And the question it begged is, what are you loving the most? And his argument, I think, was whatever you're loving the most becomes your God, your higher power.

You know, St. Augustine said, and I'm not going to get it exactly right, but he said something like, you know, well living depends on reordering your loves. And he was talking about people living with a disordered life. And the question it begged is, what are you loving the most? And his argument, I think, was whatever you're loving the most becomes your God, your higher power.

You know, St. Augustine said, and I'm not going to get it exactly right, but he said something like, you know, well living depends on reordering your loves. And he was talking about people living with a disordered life. And the question it begged is, what are you loving the most? And his argument, I think, was whatever you're loving the most becomes your God, your higher power.

You know, if I'm loving money the most, if that's the most important thing to me, then money is my higher power. The thing is money will fail me, right? Like you just talked about, like the guy could get a billion dollars and want to kill himself, right?

You know, if I'm loving money the most, if that's the most important thing to me, then money is my higher power. The thing is money will fail me, right? Like you just talked about, like the guy could get a billion dollars and want to kill himself, right?

You know, if I'm loving money the most, if that's the most important thing to me, then money is my higher power. The thing is money will fail me, right? Like you just talked about, like the guy could get a billion dollars and want to kill himself, right?

Or if I put my relationship at the, you know, if I said, you know, the most important thing to me is that my wife is happy, you know, and that's my most important thing. that sounds great, but she's not going to be happy all the time. And when she is, I'm going to feel great. And when she's not, I'm going to feel like I'm doing something wrong. You know, are we making sex the most important thing?

Or if I put my relationship at the, you know, if I said, you know, the most important thing to me is that my wife is happy, you know, and that's my most important thing. that sounds great, but she's not going to be happy all the time. And when she is, I'm going to feel great. And when she's not, I'm going to feel like I'm doing something wrong. You know, are we making sex the most important thing?

Or if I put my relationship at the, you know, if I said, you know, the most important thing to me is that my wife is happy, you know, and that's my most important thing. that sounds great, but she's not going to be happy all the time. And when she is, I'm going to feel great. And when she's not, I'm going to feel like I'm doing something wrong. You know, are we making sex the most important thing?

Are we making, you know, and his argument was love God first and then do as you do as you will, like find the highest power because these powers don't, that we're putting up there, like money, sex, food, all things that aren't problematic. We need them. They only become problematic when they're problematic, right? When they're, when we're making them that thing that's going to solve our problems.

Are we making, you know, and his argument was love God first and then do as you do as you will, like find the highest power because these powers don't, that we're putting up there, like money, sex, food, all things that aren't problematic. We need them. They only become problematic when they're problematic, right? When they're, when we're making them that thing that's going to solve our problems.

Are we making, you know, and his argument was love God first and then do as you do as you will, like find the highest power because these powers don't, that we're putting up there, like money, sex, food, all things that aren't problematic. We need them. They only become problematic when they're problematic, right? When they're, when we're making them that thing that's going to solve our problems.

What about kids?

What about kids?