Ryan Soave
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And I'm making a choice out of kind of all options of how I'm going to handle this. Now, it might still mean that I go, could we talk about it now? Right? in a text response, but that would be very distinct from kind of sending 20 text messages in rapid succession saying, what do you need? Why are you doing this? Am I in trouble?
And I'm making a choice out of kind of all options of how I'm going to handle this. Now, it might still mean that I go, could we talk about it now? Right? in a text response, but that would be very distinct from kind of sending 20 text messages in rapid succession saying, what do you need? Why are you doing this? Am I in trouble?
And I'm making a choice out of kind of all options of how I'm going to handle this. Now, it might still mean that I go, could we talk about it now? Right? in a text response, but that would be very distinct from kind of sending 20 text messages in rapid succession saying, what do you need? Why are you doing this? Am I in trouble?
You know, whatever it is we're saying, but you've been able to move to the front of the bus and now you're driving it, right? You're moving kind of out of, you're being, instead of being at the effect of life, you're being at cause.
You know, whatever it is we're saying, but you've been able to move to the front of the bus and now you're driving it, right? You're moving kind of out of, you're being, instead of being at the effect of life, you're being at cause.
You know, whatever it is we're saying, but you've been able to move to the front of the bus and now you're driving it, right? You're moving kind of out of, you're being, instead of being at the effect of life, you're being at cause.
Yeah, and there's a great line in an Indian text, it's called the Atma Gita, I think it is, where it says something like, the end of this is like, man thinks his enemy is out there, but really the man's uncontrolled mind is his only true foe. I don't know if we need to garner complete control over the mind.
Yeah, and there's a great line in an Indian text, it's called the Atma Gita, I think it is, where it says something like, the end of this is like, man thinks his enemy is out there, but really the man's uncontrolled mind is his only true foe. I don't know if we need to garner complete control over the mind.
Yeah, and there's a great line in an Indian text, it's called the Atma Gita, I think it is, where it says something like, the end of this is like, man thinks his enemy is out there, but really the man's uncontrolled mind is his only true foe. I don't know if we need to garner complete control over the mind.
I think the way to do that is to be able to kind of find ways to relax back from what the mind is doing and saying. And like you said, ignoring the thoughts between two and five. I think there's a lot of thoughts that we have that we can ignore. Our thoughts are not fact. It's this input that I'm getting. And we tend to grab onto the thoughts that I think that we've had before that have helped us
I think the way to do that is to be able to kind of find ways to relax back from what the mind is doing and saying. And like you said, ignoring the thoughts between two and five. I think there's a lot of thoughts that we have that we can ignore. Our thoughts are not fact. It's this input that I'm getting. And we tend to grab onto the thoughts that I think that we've had before that have helped us
I think the way to do that is to be able to kind of find ways to relax back from what the mind is doing and saying. And like you said, ignoring the thoughts between two and five. I think there's a lot of thoughts that we have that we can ignore. Our thoughts are not fact. It's this input that I'm getting. And we tend to grab onto the thoughts that I think that we've had before that have helped us
survive situations, even if the way that we've survived those situations is to cause destruction. You know, we know how to live, you know, example would be someone who's in an abusive relationship again and again, right? That person, I've never met that person that said, I can't wait to get in the next relationship. So it's abusive.
survive situations, even if the way that we've survived those situations is to cause destruction. You know, we know how to live, you know, example would be someone who's in an abusive relationship again and again, right? That person, I've never met that person that said, I can't wait to get in the next relationship. So it's abusive.
survive situations, even if the way that we've survived those situations is to cause destruction. You know, we know how to live, you know, example would be someone who's in an abusive relationship again and again, right? That person, I've never met that person that said, I can't wait to get in the next relationship. So it's abusive.
You know, it could be a man or a woman in this case, let's say it's a woman, you know, maybe the only men that she was around growing up or controlling or abusive. And she had some experiences with men who were very similar. And then that's the environment or the waters that she started to swim in. She knows how to survive that kind of man, or if you're a man, that kind of woman.
You know, it could be a man or a woman in this case, let's say it's a woman, you know, maybe the only men that she was around growing up or controlling or abusive. And she had some experiences with men who were very similar. And then that's the environment or the waters that she started to swim in. She knows how to survive that kind of man, or if you're a man, that kind of woman.
You know, it could be a man or a woman in this case, let's say it's a woman, you know, maybe the only men that she was around growing up or controlling or abusive. And she had some experiences with men who were very similar. And then that's the environment or the waters that she started to swim in. She knows how to survive that kind of man, or if you're a man, that kind of woman.
And when they, they would find, even if they want that relationship, that's loving, caring, kind, and patient, no conflict or not that type of conflict, even though they want that when they get into it, it doesn't make sense. because they've never done it before. They're still going to be potentially relating to that person with these past reactive patterns.
And when they, they would find, even if they want that relationship, that's loving, caring, kind, and patient, no conflict or not that type of conflict, even though they want that when they get into it, it doesn't make sense. because they've never done it before. They're still going to be potentially relating to that person with these past reactive patterns.