Sabrina Zohar

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2,255 appearances 4 recordings 4 series first heard Dec 2024 last heard 17 Apr

Sabrina Zohar’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty · Dating Expert Sabrina Zohar: You’re Not Confused, You’re Ignoring the Signs (THIS Mindset Shift Will End the “What If” Loop for Good) · 9 Feb 2026 podcast

I'm not putting that I'm only safe if I have this person because when we put someone on a pedestal, we're saying they're above us.

I have to have them.

But really what we're looking for is two equals.

I give 80% one day, maybe you give 80% and we're balancing and we're going back and forth.

But the presence of safety in a healthy and secure relationship actually means that it's going to be a lot less up and down and it's going to be a lot more consistent.

And for people like me that grew up in chaos, that felt really scary because I didn't understand it.

It's jarring, right?

I'll never discredit anyone's experience that when you think everything's good, but even you said something in the beginning that was really important.

If they spend every other day together, it's like, that's intensity.

And that's the thing.

And that's why it can feel really scary and really, because there's a lot of people, depending on the attachment style that they have, where they go and they operate from feelings minus fear.

And so for some people, they'll go in 100% of, I feel really good now, I feel really good now, because they're not taking a minute to say, hey, is this actually what I want?

What does this person have?

Are there qualities?

For a lot of people, they might enter it in in excitement.

Look, they're there, I'm here, and we're excited, we're excited, we're excited.

And then the novelty wears off because the person is consistent, because they're not playing games, they're not being activated in the same way, and that's usually when you'll start to see the pull away.

For me, that's why I'm a big proponent of going slow.

Going slow isn't an excuse for bad behavior.

Going slow just means you're not expediting the stages of the relationship quicker than they need to be.

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