Sabrina Zohar

I told him from the beginning, if you don't let me in, I can't continue doing this.

Yeah.

And I set boundaries.

And that's what's important is if you meet somebody and they're saying, like I had one guy and he said, oh, you know, I'm emotionally unavailable.

And I said, yeah, so get out of my house.

I was done with him.

Done.

Because every time I'd go and say, hey, I need to hold you accountable.

You said you were going to do this and you didn't.

God, don't you have your own life?

Why are you deflecting this onto me?

You're not taking accountability for what you did.

Now I could have sat and said, maybe one day, maybe one day.

I'm not betting on potential because my dad never changed, so it makes me think these people will.

It didn't matter how much I loved my father.

It didn't matter how much I showed up for him.

It didn't matter how much my mother, it didn't matter what she did for him.

It didn't change who he was because that's not how this works.

And so I would say, if you're dating somebody emotionally unavailable who is growth-minded and saying, I'm willing to do the work, chef's kiss.

All right, continue on and see if they have the capacity.