Sabrina Zohar

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. they both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. they both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

And the avoided person looks and says, oh my God, that's so hot. Look how open and loving they are. Look how warm they are. Then the anxious person sees the avoidant as, oh my God, they're so chill. Look, they don't have, oh, they're so independent. That's so sexy. I love that about them. But then as we start to see them, they get triggered. The anxious person wants more. No, no, come closer.

And the avoided person looks and says, oh my God, that's so hot. Look how open and loving they are. Look how warm they are. Then the anxious person sees the avoidant as, oh my God, they're so chill. Look, they don't have, oh, they're so independent. That's so sexy. I love that about them. But then as we start to see them, they get triggered. The anxious person wants more. No, no, come closer.

And the avoided person looks and says, oh my God, that's so hot. Look how open and loving they are. Look how warm they are. Then the anxious person sees the avoidant as, oh my God, they're so chill. Look, they don't have, oh, they're so independent. That's so sexy. I love that about them. But then as we start to see them, they get triggered. The anxious person wants more. No, no, come closer.

And the avoided person looks and says, oh my God, that's so hot. Look how open and loving they are. Look how warm they are. Then the anxious person sees the avoidant as, oh my God, they're so chill. Look, they don't have, oh, they're so independent. That's so sexy. I love that about them. But then as we start to see them, they get triggered. The anxious person wants more. No, no, come closer.

And the avoided person looks and says, oh my God, that's so hot. Look how open and loving they are. Look how warm they are. Then the anxious person sees the avoidant as, oh my God, they're so chill. Look, they don't have, oh, they're so independent. That's so sexy. I love that about them. But then as we start to see them, they get triggered. The anxious person wants more. No, no, come closer.

Whereas somebody secure, if you have someone that's highly anxious and you set a boundary, they're not going to keep dating that person if they disrespect the boundary. So if I'm super secure and I'm dating somebody highly anxious that doesn't respect my boundaries, texts me 24-7, freaks out if I don't text them back in two seconds, demands that I see them 24-7,

Whereas somebody secure, if you have someone that's highly anxious and you set a boundary, they're not going to keep dating that person if they disrespect the boundary. So if I'm super secure and I'm dating somebody highly anxious that doesn't respect my boundaries, texts me 24-7, freaks out if I don't text them back in two seconds, demands that I see them 24-7,

Whereas somebody secure, if you have someone that's highly anxious and you set a boundary, they're not going to keep dating that person if they disrespect the boundary. So if I'm super secure and I'm dating somebody highly anxious that doesn't respect my boundaries, texts me 24-7, freaks out if I don't text them back in two seconds, demands that I see them 24-7,

Whereas somebody secure, if you have someone that's highly anxious and you set a boundary, they're not going to keep dating that person if they disrespect the boundary. So if I'm super secure and I'm dating somebody highly anxious that doesn't respect my boundaries, texts me 24-7, freaks out if I don't text them back in two seconds, demands that I see them 24-7,

Whereas somebody secure, if you have someone that's highly anxious and you set a boundary, they're not going to keep dating that person if they disrespect the boundary. So if I'm super secure and I'm dating somebody highly anxious that doesn't respect my boundaries, texts me 24-7, freaks out if I don't text them back in two seconds, demands that I see them 24-7,

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. They both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. They both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. They both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. They both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The avoidant person starts to remove themselves and say, no, this is too much. And then we start to see this trap ensue. They both need each other. It's a very codependent relationship because the anxious and the avoidant both need each other for this dynamic to play out.

The secure person's going to say, no, thank you. That doesn't work for me. And they'll walk away. The anxious person, it's continuing on this trap of you're too much. You're too needy. They get to remove themselves, but they know, wait, but I need you to come back. I want you. The anxious person removes themselves and then the avoidant comes closer.

The secure person's going to say, no, thank you. That doesn't work for me. And they'll walk away. The anxious person, it's continuing on this trap of you're too much. You're too needy. They get to remove themselves, but they know, wait, but I need you to come back. I want you. The anxious person removes themselves and then the avoidant comes closer.

The secure person's going to say, no, thank you. That doesn't work for me. And they'll walk away. The anxious person, it's continuing on this trap of you're too much. You're too needy. They get to remove themselves, but they know, wait, but I need you to come back. I want you. The anxious person removes themselves and then the avoidant comes closer.