Sabrina Zohar

We have to be open and receptive to that. But at that same token, we have to also be cognizant of just that. What is my gut telling me? What is my reasoning for going out with this person? If you're saying, listen, I haven't gone out on a date. I just want to get dressed up and go out, go have fun. But for you, I would say, because you're so swamped, coffee dates are Coffee dates are huge for me.

We have to be open and receptive to that. But at that same token, we have to also be cognizant of just that. What is my gut telling me? What is my reasoning for going out with this person? If you're saying, listen, I haven't gone out on a date. I just want to get dressed up and go out, go have fun. But for you, I would say, because you're so swamped, coffee dates are Coffee dates are huge for me.

That's, I think, it is really just about feeling in control of your dating life. And that's okay if you're like, hey, I do my first dates on a Friday or Saturday. That way I don't have to worry about work. Absolutely. That's a boundary that you're setting. The other alternative could be I also leave a Tuesday at 6 o'clock just for me because I don't do late nights. For me, like, I'm up at 5 a.m.

That's, I think, it is really just about feeling in control of your dating life. And that's okay if you're like, hey, I do my first dates on a Friday or Saturday. That way I don't have to worry about work. Absolutely. That's a boundary that you're setting. The other alternative could be I also leave a Tuesday at 6 o'clock just for me because I don't do late nights. For me, like, I'm up at 5 a.m.

That's, I think, it is really just about feeling in control of your dating life. And that's okay if you're like, hey, I do my first dates on a Friday or Saturday. That way I don't have to worry about work. Absolutely. That's a boundary that you're setting. The other alternative could be I also leave a Tuesday at 6 o'clock just for me because I don't do late nights. For me, like, I'm up at 5 a.m.

That's, I think, it is really just about feeling in control of your dating life. And that's okay if you're like, hey, I do my first dates on a Friday or Saturday. That way I don't have to worry about work. Absolutely. That's a boundary that you're setting. The other alternative could be I also leave a Tuesday at 6 o'clock just for me because I don't do late nights. For me, like, I'm up at 5 a.m.

That's, I think, it is really just about feeling in control of your dating life. And that's okay if you're like, hey, I do my first dates on a Friday or Saturday. That way I don't have to worry about work. Absolutely. That's a boundary that you're setting. The other alternative could be I also leave a Tuesday at 6 o'clock just for me because I don't do late nights. For me, like, I'm up at 5 a.m.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

I love a coffee date because what you could say is, hey, I'm about to go run an errand. Why don't you come meet me for 25 minutes? Let's see if we have something here. If we do, then we could go to dinner, right? That's you respecting your time and boundaries and saying, I just want to do a quick vibe check. FaceTime vibe check, right? Let's have a conversation on FaceTime. Wow, you're funny.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

every morning. I can't be out. I don't drink alcohol. I don't want to do that whole thing. So I'm going to do an earlier date. But it's a really great way to see because here's the beauty about what I like about what you're doing is you're setting a boundary saying, hey, I can only go out Friday. Somebody that respects you will say, cool, let me make it happen. Or, hey, Hala, I'm so sorry.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.

Okay, cool. I'd like to meet you versus, oh, no, thank you. I'm not into this because at the end of the day, you set the boundaries, right? You prioritize how often you spend on work. You prioritize how your friendships are. It's just another priority. And if you're telling me, well, I don't prioritize that, it's like, well, then there you go. You're not ready for a relationship. It's okay.