Sam Parr

Also, I'll say two things.

One, I think it's great to acknowledge the season you're in.

I think people want everything to be constant.

And there are seasons where you're able to be full out.

There's seasons where you're in recovery mode.

There's seasons where you're in, you know, nesting mode where you're just like, look, all that matters is like protecting the nest because there's like these baby eggs here right now.

And like, that's all that really matters.

I don't need to distract myself with a random hunt over here.

I need to stay at the nest.

And so I think knowing the season and not beating yourself up about that is something that

ambitious sort of type A people struggle with.

It's like you've got to give yourself some grace, you know, when you're so wired towards achievement of random goals.

Well, everybody says the same thing.

It's like, oh, it's man-to-man defense now.

There's two of you and two of them.

It's definitely a second baby blindside for dads because the first baby is the one you think everything's going to change and it's going to be like, oh my God, my life's going to get really crazy.

And then it's like,

That's all right.

I got this.

This is not so bad.