Sam Sanders
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960 appearances
14 recordings
6 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard 3 Jun
Sam Sanders’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It's happening.
I have told people all the time, when you are experiencing an adult in your life who is acting like a child, that is the time at which you most need to be an adult.
Blessings to everyone probably listening to this, but I'm just going to say from my own point of view, when you start to get into the space of primaries and secondaries, that's messy.
And so my first bit of advice is not quite a told you so, but this was bound to get messy.
And I think that
The problem with some of these relationships is that once the hierarchy is set, nothing else is set.
So there probably was never a grounding conversation about how money needs to work in the relationship.
Because had there been, he would have had to talk to you first before this total switch up.
But it's romantic.
It's not the logistics.
It's not the, like, I feel like, are you having to talk about money?
Oh, go ahead.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Well, and not to bash anyone in poly relationships, most non-poly relationships, they don't have these conversations either.
I have dated guys who have made more money than me or less money than me and I've been on both sides of the equation and we've never had that dialogue in the times when it has come up.
It's kind of been an argument with tears because one of us is like, I'm broke, I can't do this.
Yeah, and so I think that...
I'm really intrigued.
What is it about the poly nature of your relationship that is part of this problem?
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