Sam Sanders

I would love for us to pick some kind of activity that is pretty cheap or free.

And just see what they say.

And that might open up the doors of the conversation.

But that's probably easier to do than saying, I want to talk to you about the way that you spend money.

Make it an eye conversation.

I'm spending less money right now.

How can we accommodate that?

Also, he should have took you on that vacation.

Primary, secondary.

Come on.

Let's all do it.

Come on.

After the break... I think there's some larger, deep-seated issues around money here that haven't really been unpacked.

If you can't address it, I'd say run for the doors.

I think bringing up the R word is good to do because resentment will end a relationship.

It just will.

And so if you're already worried about resentment, that means it's a serious issue that needs to be taken seriously.

I would say, gosh, I hate to say my advice is like break up, but like,

If you know you can't budge and they can't budge and you aren't aligned, where do both of you see yourselves in 10 years?

And how closely are you tied or wedded to that vision and version of your life?