Sam Sanders
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960 appearances
14 recordings
6 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard 3 Jun
Sam Sanders’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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If you can't address it, I'd say run for the doors.
I think bringing up the R word is good to do because resentment will end a relationship.
It just will.
And so if you're already worried about resentment, that means it's a serious issue that needs to be taken seriously.
I would say, gosh, I hate to say my advice is like break up, but like,
If you know you can't budge and they can't budge and you aren't aligned, where do both of you see yourselves in 10 years?
And how closely are you tied or wedded to that vision and version of your life?
If you're really tied to being where you are and you don't want to change that, having to move will make you resent him.
If he's really tied to moving and you make him stay, it'll make him resent you.
And resentment will end a relationship.
So I would say if you can't find something that will lead to neither of you having resentment over this, it might be worth considering ending the relationship.
Yeah.
But it might not be.
No one has an end date.
Yeah.
I have many couples in my life in which one of them is in medical school.
At a certain point, they have to go somewhere for residency and it's usually somewhere else.
But the agreement has always been, we'll do this for you for a few years and then once that's done, we'll move for me in a few years.
So maybe there's a scenario in which you both just put a timeline on it.
We'll try this out, but if at year three or four or five it still does not work, we're going to move somewhere else or move back.
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