Sam Sanders

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960 appearances 14 recordings 6 series first heard Mar 2025 last heard 3 Jun

Sam Sanders’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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And if that were a part of the conversation, it might help both of you feel like you were getting something out of this arrangement.
I think that there are some red flags for me.
Because if this guy is not just supporting his family to the point where he is going into debt, but also paying a second time for things you've already paid for, I think there's some larger deep-seated issues around money here that haven't really been unpacked.
And I think that there's a lot of pride in there, a lot of maybe male-centric pride that needs to be addressed.
But if he can't address it, I'd say run for the doors.
Okay.
Yeah.
And there you have it.
Yeah.
And it's not helping the future of their relationship as a couple.
He's not building the foundation of y'all's relationship if he's already wasting money to speak to his pride.
And then I think if he's not budging, then... I think the first thing you look for and see if he can make progress on this, it's like, all right, the problem already exists.
You're not going to break up with him because the problem exists.
But the next step is can he communicate about this problem effectively and speak to his emotions and find a solution and a way forward?
If he can have a good and substantive conversation with you in this moment about pride and money, you're on the right track.
But if he can't have a conversation about this, what else will he not be able to have a conversation with you about?
So it seems like it's less about the money and more about the communication.
So maybe the next test for you as you navigate this problem is not so much thinking about the money first, but thinking about, can this guy communicate with me in the way that I need to feel supported in a relationship?
And if not, if not...
Send them my way.
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