Sam Vaknin

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472 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2026 last heard 10 Feb

Sam Vaknin’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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it's invisible and yet the child is being corroded and eroded to the point that all the defenses crumble all the inhibitions fall away and the child honestly and truly believes that the only way to survive is to get rid of the parental figures they have become what we call in psychology persecutory objects they have become the enemy and
If parents don't know how to manage these situations, I don't think, I mean, parasite is not that common, but the equivalent of parasite would be the disappearance of the child from your life.
The vanishing of the child, the child will vanish simply one way or another.
Substance abuse.
Substance abuse is a great sign.
Experimentation with identities, which is out of the normal.
I'm not necessarily talking about gender dysphoria and transgender and so on, but when the child experiments with identities on a constant basis, this is a process known as moratorium.
So it expands on a constant basis and seems to be unable to settle on a single identity.
When the child rejects not the parental behavior, but the parents themselves, when the child defines itself, negative identity, defines itself in contradiction to the parents as mutually exclusive entities, have nothing to do with the parents, refuses.
When the child becomes aggressive and violent out of context,
and begins to develop hypervigilance, begins to interpret innocuous acts and innocuous utterances and words as insults or slides or threats or attacks.
So there's a lot of this.
When the child becomes entitled and makes unreasonable demands on the resources of the parent, could be money, could be time, could be energy, could be, you know, drive me to school every morning, otherwise I won't go to school.
Entitlement is a major warning sign.
interest in weapons, guns, and so on, definitely is a warning sign.
But I think if you really are looking for something that is unequivocal, unambiguous, and happens all the time, it's this discrepancy that I mentioned between the facade that the family puts outside, outwardly, public-facing, and what's really happening.
The parents know this.
They know that it's a facade.
They know it's fake.
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