Sarah Bays

speaker

910 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 26 Jun

Sarah Bays’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

Trend

recordings per month · last 12 months

Recordings per month over the last 12 months — 2 in all, peaking in Jun 2026 with 2.

Appearances

newest first · ▶ plays the moment

But Are You Happy? · Catching Feelings In Your Situationship? We Got You. · 5 Jun 2026 podcast

And also like checking in on that because things change, you know, a month later, six months later, a year later, we might be in different places.

So it's that kind of revisiting of like, how is this working for you?

Like, do we see each other frequently enough?

Are we having enough intimacy?

Do you want more from me?

Am I pushing too much on you?

You

And that's a great formula where it works really well.

Yeah.

But both parties have to be able to have that level of, I guess, communication skill really.

Yeah.

And transparency.

Yeah.

But the other type of formula I see, which is maybe not so positive where it does get quite complicated, is when there is this –

I guess maybe on both sides, this reluctance to have real vulnerability.

If one person's not able to say, hey, I want a bit more or this isn't really working for me, then it's this kind of trap where we have this like faux security and faux stability, but really

I can only rely on you in particular windows and in particular ways.

I actually don't have that secure and stable partnership that I might want, you know.

And I think there's this sort of breadcrumbing that happens, and this is not intentional breadcrumbing like in a narcissistic type of way, but just this where you get these moments of like connection and closeness and like, yay, we got to see each other or we had a great phone call or we, you know, went out and had a nice date.

But then the rest of the week,

Showing 501–520 of 910 · page 26 of 46