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Sarah Schnitker

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
178 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And so I think this is just a great example of how

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

courage and patience play out in real time.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And that if we try to escape or rush through pain, we won't actually achieve our goals.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

But that pain is sometimes a signal that we need to stop.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

But sometimes we have to be patient with pain and persist through it because it's necessary.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

I'm thinking of childbirth, just how many women who have gone through the labor process would know this acutely, that there are some forms of pain that are good and need to be worked through, but that doesn't make it any easier to wait it out and continue moving forward during that process.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

Yes, you know, patience is essential for learning.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And I do see students often want to rush to get there.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And instead of saying, oh, this is taking time, this is something that's difficult, or this is something that must be really worthwhile because it's taking me so much time to understand it.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

I think some of their first responses, this is taking me time, means either it's not worth the learning.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

or something's wrong with me.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And I should be able to learn this quickly, especially some of my brightest students.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

They can struggle with this the most.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And so I do a lot of conversations, especially with my PhD students, the best and the brightest who have been able to learn so much already to just normalize

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

That learning anything difficult is going to take you so much more time than you realize it will.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

Especially for learning a skill like writing or advanced mathematics or really any skill that really requires expertise.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

It's going to take you a while to get there.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

And that is not a signal that you don't have what it takes.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

It's a signal that this is something worthwhile.

Hidden Brain
Radical Acceptance

This is a fantastic idea.