Sarah

So...

Um, and there's been like other things that he's been struggling with, like addiction wise.

Um, and that's, I don't want to get too much into that just cause that it's, that is very personal on a level that I don't know if I want that on air.

Um, but, and that has like drained some of our finances as well.

Yeah.

No.

No, honestly, it's a lot worse than that.

And it is rooted into childhood trauma.

And his mom has a lot to do with it.

And she's just always jumped in to solve all of his problems.

And he's never created the skills to...

be able to problem solve on his own.

And that has also caused a lot of, um, problems in our marriage.

Cause, and, and I'm, I grew up in a tough love home.

Like I did.

And it's not that I try to do that same process to my husband, but I'm not one.

Yeah.

And, but it's,

I don't want to build up, like, a false sense of pride in him in a way because his mom is always just, like...

The best way I can explain it is like if she could marry her own son, she would.