Saskia

Saskia's got a great sense of humor, and when it comes to dating, she's always looked for the same in other people.

Here's Saskia.

I always liked someone, you know, just making jokes, someone fun, silly, goofy, don't like to talk about work when I'm not at work, that kind of stuff.

In her 20s, she liked guys with big laughs, big personalities.

Guys who didn't take themselves too seriously.

But yeah, usually that came with not being the most responsible people in life.

Some of the men she dated were unemployed.

Others had a habit of getting into trouble.

I remember I had one boyfriend who was shoplifting when I was with him.

And we both got in trouble, even though it wasn't shoplifting.

He felt terrible.

It was like, let her go home.

And they were like, no.

When she was 28, she met the man who'd become the father of her kids.

We'll call him Chris.

We met at a Jaw Works concert.

It's a reggae band.

Chris seemed a little more responsible.

He'd served in the Army, but he was also the life of the party, just like the other guys from Saskia's past.

I thought he was really good looking and funny and silly.