Saskia

There was one time where we played strip bowling or something.

I mean, something like that.

It sounded fun at the time and it was kind of fun, especially because I never had that with my first husband.

I didn't think he desired me at all.

So here this was and it felt like, wow, like this person that I'm going to be with, like we do like desire each other.

And we can have fun and it is sexual and like that's good because it shouldn't be just a roommate situation.

When he tried to spice things up, he was respectful of her boundaries.

I remember one time he took a picture of me and showed me how good my butt looked or something like that.

And I explicitly asked him, what are you doing with that picture?

And he's like, well, of course I'm going to erase it.

I would never show it to anybody.

She had every reason to trust him.

They loved each other.

When he would go to work in the morning, he would always leave me like a note on my pillow.

Saskia shared some of those notes with us.

Here's a voice actor reading one.

After years of feeling alone in her first marriage, Mike's words meant a lot.

He made it clear how much he loved her.

Whenever he traveled for work... We always had a nice, sweet kiss before he left and a big hug.

And we would talk every night.