Saskia

As friends and family got to know Mike, they saw just how much he had to offer.

Here's her friend, Megan.

He was like a knight in shining armor.

At the time, Megan was actually married to one of Saskia's older brothers.

And her brothers didn't really get Mike.

The nerdy corporate type stuck out in this crowd.

Saskia needed different.

Slowly, Mike was integrating into her world, and she liked that.

He was everything that I thought would be good for me, good for my kids, and I did fall in love with him.

It wasn't like the boom, you get hit with this love from the beginning, right?

It grew at a pace that I felt like was a healthy pace.

As their love grew, so did Saskia's comfort level.

She could let her guard down.

There was one time where we played strip bowling or something.

I mean, something like that.

It sounded fun at the time and it was kind of fun, especially because I never had that with my first husband.

I didn't think he desired me at all.

So here this was and it felt like, wow, like this person that I'm going to be with, like we do like desire each other.

And we can have fun and it is sexual and like that's good because it shouldn't be just a roommate situation.

When he tried to spice things up, he was respectful of her boundaries.