Saskia

With most of the money going towards the venue, Saskia tried to save wherever she could.

Heather was making cookie favors for our two lovebirds.

She's really good at making fancy cookies.

I borrowed Bridget's dress, which she was happy about because she spent way too much money on it and only got to wear it once.

Finally, the wedding day arrived.

I got up, went to Nordstrom to have my makeup done.

Bought some makeup.

You know how you have to do that.

My sister's friend did my hair, all the girls' hair.

And then we all trucked to the Waverly Mansion and had the bride's suite there.

The day was as much about the four kids as it was Mike and Saskia.

Mike had this idea to do a sand ceremony where basically everybody picks a color of sand.

My son picked blue.

The girls picked purple and pink.

Mike and I each had a color and everybody pours sand into this glass vase and just symbolizes the family coming together, merging into one family.

Megan, her sister-in-law, remembers it as a beautiful wedding.

She seemed so happy, and we were all happy for her.

But that wasn't how everyone felt.

Here's Heather.

The entire night she seemed off.