Sebastian Junger
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You can't choose to fall in love, right?
It's an overwhelming feeling that you can't resist.
And if it's not, you're not really in love, bro.
You might have married Betty, but you're not in love with Betty, right?
But when you have that experience of overwhelming love, like, oh, my God, I'm in love with that person.
I got to be with them.
That's love finding you.
You didn't manufacture it and you didn't make an executive decision.
Well, I'm in love with Betty now and we're getting married.
I mean, people used to do that and it just isn't love.
And so what I can't do is make an executive.
When people say, you've got to find God, you've got to find Jesus, I'd listen, man.
Even if I wanted to, which I don't, but even if I wanted to, it doesn't work that way, right?
I can't just decide to love God.