Sebastian Junger

Yeah.

But girls, it's just like, it's amazing.

And it wakes up some part of you that was dormant and you didn't know was there.

It's just like, it's an amazing feeling.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

But you've got to meet the right person, right?

I mean, if you're not with the right person, I imagine being on top of that, that's hard enough just on its own, on top of that.

Oh, yeah.

Parenting with the wrong person must be a freaking nightmare.

A nightmare.

Well, what I do for a variety of family reasons, I flatline.

Like if someone's coming at me with something that doesn't make sense and they're really upset.

I just sort of emotionally flatline.

I get super rational and just zero Kelvin like nothing, which is kind of a good place to be because it's not escalatory.

But I've come to find out that's also exceedingly provocative to do to someone who's upset.

Yeah, and they think that your non-response means you don't care.

And then you're just so screwed.

And I think I'm doing the relationship a favor by...

I was like, somebody's got to stay sane in this room, right?