Seth Perler
speaker
9,287 appearances
19 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2017
last heard 14 Nov
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Now, as a parent, parents always tell me that their child won't listen to them or their child won't take their advice or their child is resistant to their help.
Well, you should know that that's very normal.
Um, don't feel like there's something wrong with you or anything.
Um, but I'm building rapport in the meet and greet in you as parents and teachers, like that that trust, that emotional safety is so important if you're gonna be able to push them further.
And when I say push your children further, I don't mean in a pushy way, but I mean sort of scaffold them forward millimeter by millimeter to help them in their life.
So
That rapport is so huge.
So here we go.
Number one thing that I do in order to help these kids change is uh I keep in mind that this is not linear.
We're not doing a step-by-step perfect thing.
There's no way to do that.
We're dealing with a complex human being and helping them change.
Imagine how hard it is for us adults to change a habit or something that we want to change.
Now multiply that by ten or twenty to think how hard
hard it is to get another human being to change.
So this is not linear.
It's a very circuitous map.
Okay.
Number two is that I keep in mind the number one thing it within families and that to me is relationships.
That's the most important thing you have with your kid is your relationship.
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