Shannon Curry
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
And then you get this light shining through and you realize, oh my God, of course they would be sensitive to that.
And suddenly it's not about all the ways your partner is wrong and proving that they're wrong.
It's just
So we are absolutely doing it wrong.
But there is a way you can do it.
And I am such a fan of the psychologist Tai Toshiro.
I adore him.
He's brilliant.
He's lovely.
He's also very humble.
Just a wonderful salt of the earth guy.
I'm going to tell you a very true story here.
Okay?
Let's go.
I was in a bad relationship.
And I was...
at a psychology conference with my partner at the time.
We were both at this conference and we were sitting in a lecture hall there for Tai Toshiro to do his talk that day on his phenomenal research on relationship satisfaction and dating.
And I'm sitting next to him and we'd been, you know, it was just always unpleasant on trips.
There were always fights.