Sharleen Joynt

for not being very articulate.

No, I completely agree.

I mean, look at, like, let's say Alex or Chris from the most recent season of Love is Blind.

You just didn't see men behaving like that.

I do think casting does play a part in this.

Like, they're probably casting because they're terrible, because...

these shows know that the more terrible the contestants they get, the more people are watching.

Yeah, like it's gonna make better TV.

They're all feeding the same beast.

Also, the more followers you get, the more airtime you get, the more followers you get, and now everyone knows that you can make a career out of that.

The first season of The Bachelor, that didn't exist.

Like on my season, Instagram wasn't even a thing yet.

Oh, sorry, I didn't understand the question.

But I think there's more ethical ways of going about, you know, not offending it or speaking to someone, approaching someone.

I think it depends.

I think it's case by case.

And, you know, we're focusing on the ones that we were being critical of, but there's also many men across all of these shows that we have really loved.

Like we shower love on some people and we'll criticize others because what we're looking for really is human connection.

Right.

And if it feels like the people aren't really looking for that or just bearing and like just trying to connect with another human, I'd feel like, what's the point?