Sharleen Joynt

He gets flack for that part of the story.

Well, actually, I was invited to this event by a guy I had met on Match years prior, like three years prior.

And we had stayed friends because he always knew the good parties and stuff.

So we sort of stayed like peripheral friends.

And he invited me to this.

And he had not yet arrived when I was there.

So I was there alone.

My girlfriends had canceled.

And I was sort of like...

Didn't know what I was doing, so I sat on the sofa next to Andy.

Also, talking to strangers.

He picked me up.

I feel like that feels quaint now.

It's tougher to do that.

That's advanced level, yes.

Especially when you're targeting one of the maybe three girls and you're like, who do I talk to?

So what we're learning about men, though, is that when they go out, they're assessing how much energy is this going to take?

Okay.

Yeah.

I think it's, yeah, and you also don't build the character that you would build from rejection and taking those risks and maybe expending energy in the wrong places.