Sheleana Aiyana

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

And I acknowledge that this isn't going to always be easy, but I'm willing to do the work along the way.

That's a great sign that the relationship has potential because that was Ben and I, you know, we were both on a healing journey.

We were on a healing journey together.

We weren't like, oh, we've done our work and now we're going to fade off into the sunset together.

We're like, okay.

We're committed to being together.

And soon we quickly realize there's no better match than each other.

And yet it's still going to be difficult.

So when it gets difficult, what are we going to do about it?

That's the thing you need to clarify.

Because if you're with a person who says, well, relationships should be easy.

If we have to see a therapist or if we need to do inner work, then there's something wrong, which is the belief system of many people out there.

Then you don't have a chance.

But if you're both aware enough to say, yeah, I've got some stuff, you know, I'm avoidant or I'm anxious and I'm going to work on that.

And I want to work on it with you.

Great.

It should be easier, but that doesn't make it easy.

And I think for all of us, we have a different level of tolerance.

and nervous system capacity, and desire to be with that person is the foundation.

So I have couples in my sphere who had deep attachment wounds, were clearly a perfect match for each other in every way, and yet their attachment wounds were so strong that the first three years of their relationship was just absolute chaos, but they had tools, they had therapy, they had somatic work, they had processes, and they just kept going because they loved each other.

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