Sheleana Aiyana

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

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than the type of couple who's maybe more inward and avoidant or just non-confrontational in conflict when you get two scrappers even if they're doing the work you know when there's when there's something coming up it's going to look different than the other couple who's

perhaps more muted in terms of their expression.

Neither is right or wrong.

It's just going to be different.

And we have to assess what we're tolerant of, what our boundaries are, and make agreements for how we're going to navigate conflict so that we don't destroy the relationship along the way, which we can easily do.

We have to say, okay, well, these are the boundaries.

This is the agreements.

And we have to lean in a little bit and honor our partner, even if it's hard, do some things that we maybe don't naturally do to create safety so that we can get there.

Yeah.

Yeah, exactly.

And that's often what happens is we continue to go down these pathways, these nervous system responses that we're used to.

And even though we love our partners, we destroy the relationship and then we can't repair because there's just too much damage done.

And then we end up in the inner work.

It's body memory from obviously early childhood, but sometimes not so obviously when we're teens or in our earlier years where, you know, we've been deeply hurt or betrayed by somebody.

And that button gets pushed and that old familiar feeling and that story that I'm not loved or I'm not safe or I'm being taken advantage of or I'm going to be left alone.

We're attacked.

All of these stories, those get activated in the body memory.

And so it's often an unconscious thing when we get triggered or activated in a relationship.

All of a sudden, we're blowing things out of proportion because the mind is saying you're not safe.

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