Sheleana Aiyana

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

It was just wild stuff.

Willingness again you know being willing because we're not going to be perfect and we're going to fall off track and we're going to fall into old patterns but the willingness to repair you know the Gottmans they talk about this a lot too repairing is so important being able to take ownership being able to apologize and you know being willing to see our part.

being willing to see the ways that we are contributing to the breakdown of the relationship and also acknowledging that to our partner, sort of revealing our vulnerability underneath the defensiveness.

And that's one of the things that I tell people when they say, oh, you and Ben must just

I gaze all day and, you know, have these sacred practices and, you know, well, sometimes we do that now that we have a daughter, we'd never do that right now.

You know, we have a baby, uh, but it's, it doesn't really look like that.

It's really just about being present in each moment and doing your best and doing your best to love your partner as much as you can.

And remember that they were once a child.

Like we have little photos of each other as children on our altar in our bedroom.

And that helps when you see the little, you know, your little Martha, you know, you have a little photo of her on the fridge.

If you're having a moment where you're feeling butthurt and then you go and look at little Martha, like, oh my gosh, how can I be mad at this beautiful being, you know, this beautiful, innocent being.

And it takes work to come back to that innocence over and over.

And to me, that's what conscious relationship is about.

Oh my gosh.

A skill that I, like a relationship skill or just any skill?

I was going to say like triple axel.

A relationship skill I would say would be mastering the art of always being present.

I still don't have that down.

That's the thing that I'm most drawn to mastering is presence.

Even as a new mother, presence is the most beautiful experience for me.

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