Sifumeze Kundayi
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148 appearances
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first heard Apr 2026
last heard 13 Apr
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Yeah.
Tiff is speaking about an experience that we had in Nigeria where people struggled to speak about the positivity of their sex, struggled to speak about how, what they find attractive about each other, you know, and what they like, how they like to be touched, how they like to be spoken to by their partners because of this positivity.
other violent narrative that they have to carry in their everyday life.
Yes, it's great for the rest of the world to identify, but this is about reminding our own people on this continent and in the context that we have and the difficulty of being queer on this continent that it is okay
for you to survive.
It's okay for you to feel good.
It's okay for you to enjoy your person as much as you go out into the streets and the world says, this is not okay.
But behind closed doors, this is important for you to know.
And it's important for you to create a healthy environment for you and your partner or partners or however it is that you choose to create your sexuality or perform your sexuality.
There's also, I think, religion and the way that we shape our value systems around religion and shaming people for sex before marriage, you know, is a sin.
And actually masturbating is a sin.
I think for the longest time, I carried a lot of shame around masturbating because this gets drilled in you.
You are not allowed to touch yourself.
And even or you're not in a healthy space in your relationship if you're masturbating.
Oh, yeah, that's a good one.
Then now you're also attaching the sexuality that you are shamed of to another person.
And now you guys have to match.
And yeah, there's a lot of policing around sex.
Definitely so much policing.
And it comes from every single direction.
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