Sifumeze Kundayi

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148 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2026 last heard 13 Apr

Sifumeze Kundayi’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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How to Be a Better Human · How to have great sex (w/ Siphumeze Khundayi and Tiffany Mugo) (re-release) · 13 Apr 2026 podcast

And experience together.

So even as you are writing down your thoughts, understanding that, okay, cool.

Ego aside, what am I trying to build with this human being here?

What sort of experience do I want to have with this human being?

Because it's also going to be so different with each person that you have sex with.

And even if you think you're confident and you know exactly what you're doing with the next person, you're not going to know because it's a new body and you're understanding very new things.

And so you have to learn what they like, what you like and what somebody else that you've had sex with before, like isn't going to be the same thing.

Most of the time, it's not going to be the same thing.

So you have to relearn.

You have to start from scratch every single time.

So it's important to put that ego aside when you're dealing with sex and talking to a partner about it.

I'm trying to be a better human by being a good human to myself, because I know that when I allow myself to be free and I allow myself to be exactly how I want to be and I give myself the love and the patience, I'm able to give it to other people as well.

For me, sure, there's so many things.

I think my art, my work as an artist has taught me a lot.

And it has taken me to so many different types of contexts, you know.

And I've learned so much through the work and...

Through the work itself and the people that I've met there.

And then I would say that Hala is the biggest, biggest game changer in my life, actually, because everything that we've had to...

publish we read and you know it teaches you so much how other people speak in their stories teaches you so much about yourself and you get to know so much about your gaps and you get to know about the strengths that you didn't realize you get to discover your own sexuality i discovered my sexuality because of this organization and the work that we do and the conversations that we have with queer people you know

I learn so much from every single person that we meet.

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