Sim

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992 appearances 4 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2026 last heard 8 Jun

Sim’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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That one, that one I will turn a blind eye to.
I don't mind that one.
And 18% possess a secret credit card.
That is a lot of secrecy in something that's meant to be a relationship where you want to work together and you want to be on the same page.
But if you're listening to this and going, well, Sim, what do people get wrong in relationships?
And what's some of the reasons why divorce...
tends to happen when financial incompatibility really starts to balloon out.
There's two things that I have noticed.
The first is that there are different money habits and when people's money habits are so different and there's no room for them to grow together, things can become a little bit tricky.
You probably have someone in your friend group and maybe you are that couple where like Sally is really frugal and
she saves a lot she tracks all of her money and she has a goal to buy a house and Jason is like you know what screw it like he's obsessed with I don't know fortnight that was just the first thing that came to mind but you know he's spending his money on things that are in alignment with his goals and like makes him happy but they're not in alignment with a couple goals and then Sally starts to wonder like should I just start saving up to buy a house on my own should I just separate my finances like how is this going to work and if they don't have those high
harder conversations, not to say they're doomed, but if they don't have those conversations, it makes it really harder to get on the same page.
Those are things that are usually easier to fix.
Now, the harder parts and the types of relationships where money comes in and it's a bit of a red flag for them is when they have financial infidelity.
It is what I mentioned when partners are like, I'm going to hide my money or
I'm not sure about this.
Let me do things on my own that my husband or my wife doesn't need to know about.
Or if I start this like side business, they don't need to know about the extra income coming in.
Or if I have an inheritance coming, they don't need to know about that.
That is a lot harder because now we've got deceit.
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