Sonia Kahlon

He disappeared.

So he, we were as in like- Wait, wait, wait.

We had two little dogs and, you know, in an investment account.

And so I, he, so he says, I'm going to go help these friends.

I'm having this mental health thing.

So I'm like looking, finding him like psychiatrist, like coaches.

So he didn't handle, I don't know how you handled the sale of your business, but.

his identity was wrapped up in us and our like success.

Right.

And so being an entrepreneur and building this huge practice and selling it and then, you know, I think when we sold and also we had been used to this certain level of busyness.

And so without that, his identity just started to crumble.

And

At the same time that I got sober, he said, okay, I'll stop smoking weed.

And he smoked a lot of weed.

And so I think that...

This is the difference between doing the work and not doing the work, I kind of feel like.

You can stop drinking.

You can stop smoking weed.

You can stop doing drugs.

But unless you do the work behind it and figure out who you really are, I think you're going to destroy your life.